Orgasm, Men vs. Women, It’s Not the Same
When men orgasm they stop moving. They have reached the top and there is
no further to go. They explode with semen. It feels great. They are done.
But they try to apply this to women too. Thinking women get excited, climax and are done. So the man stops when the woman starts to come. This is wrong! Most women do not want you to stop when they are beginning to climax. It's just the beginning and could go on for 10-20 seconds even minutes. Understand that women have an "orgasm plateau." They reach it and stay there. They need to be continuously stimulated to stay there. Then they can sometimes reach a higher plateau. And stay there a while. This may get exhausting for your hips, back, arm, finger, hand or tongue. This is why you need to work out and be in shape for sex. You need to be able to continue to pleasure her well past the initial explosion. She needs to be able to rely on you to keep doing the same thing that made her come at the same rhythm for a while. Minutes. In order for her to actually be satisfied by it. You can to take her to another level of consciousness. And you have to be willing to stay on earth and do the work to get her there.
Otherwise you are just using her as a place to deposit sperm and have missed the point of sex with a woman entirely. You may as well jerk off in a sock if you plan is to turn her on, bring her to the edge of orgasm, come in her then go to sleep or leave. That's not worth the effort for her to get undressed. That is called being a selfish lover. You may think she came because she squirted a little or she yelled out a lot and said "oh god!" but orgasm for a woman has no words. If you are doing it right we just make guttural noises like a cow. It's not pretty but it sounds amazing and animalistic and you won't ever forget it.
I often wonder if men get jealous of how intensely and how long women can climax. Is that why men started cutting off clitorises? Is that why men started marrying 13 year old daughters for money? So that women never knew how much they COULD enjoy sex? So the only sex they knew was from their lame selfish husband? Is that why men took over politics? Because it's all just a way to keep women from feeling so happy? To compete for exclusive rights to make a woman or group of women miserable? Is that what keeps us from creating a peaceful world? Men thinking they can't have plateaus of orgasms? But they can. In the tantric teachings, when men hold back from completion, they reach higher levels of orgasm. It's the opposite of women who need to express their pleasure, literally push it out and feel it more and more intensely as it is released, men need to restrain and hold back to get to the next plateau. A man can come three, four, five times in a row with this method. All he has to do is continue restraint. Holds the energy in. I wonder how much better the world would be if men learned how to be multiorgasmic like women? I wonder how wonderful the world would be if all the women were given multiple orgasms regularly. I wonder how much more peace there would be in the world if people had enough orgasms to always be happy? Let's find out!
But they try to apply this to women too. Thinking women get excited, climax and are done. So the man stops when the woman starts to come. This is wrong! Most women do not want you to stop when they are beginning to climax. It's just the beginning and could go on for 10-20 seconds even minutes. Understand that women have an "orgasm plateau." They reach it and stay there. They need to be continuously stimulated to stay there. Then they can sometimes reach a higher plateau. And stay there a while. This may get exhausting for your hips, back, arm, finger, hand or tongue. This is why you need to work out and be in shape for sex. You need to be able to continue to pleasure her well past the initial explosion. She needs to be able to rely on you to keep doing the same thing that made her come at the same rhythm for a while. Minutes. In order for her to actually be satisfied by it. You can to take her to another level of consciousness. And you have to be willing to stay on earth and do the work to get her there.
Otherwise you are just using her as a place to deposit sperm and have missed the point of sex with a woman entirely. You may as well jerk off in a sock if you plan is to turn her on, bring her to the edge of orgasm, come in her then go to sleep or leave. That's not worth the effort for her to get undressed. That is called being a selfish lover. You may think she came because she squirted a little or she yelled out a lot and said "oh god!" but orgasm for a woman has no words. If you are doing it right we just make guttural noises like a cow. It's not pretty but it sounds amazing and animalistic and you won't ever forget it.
I often wonder if men get jealous of how intensely and how long women can climax. Is that why men started cutting off clitorises? Is that why men started marrying 13 year old daughters for money? So that women never knew how much they COULD enjoy sex? So the only sex they knew was from their lame selfish husband? Is that why men took over politics? Because it's all just a way to keep women from feeling so happy? To compete for exclusive rights to make a woman or group of women miserable? Is that what keeps us from creating a peaceful world? Men thinking they can't have plateaus of orgasms? But they can. In the tantric teachings, when men hold back from completion, they reach higher levels of orgasm. It's the opposite of women who need to express their pleasure, literally push it out and feel it more and more intensely as it is released, men need to restrain and hold back to get to the next plateau. A man can come three, four, five times in a row with this method. All he has to do is continue restraint. Holds the energy in. I wonder how much better the world would be if men learned how to be multiorgasmic like women? I wonder how wonderful the world would be if all the women were given multiple orgasms regularly. I wonder how much more peace there would be in the world if people had enough orgasms to always be happy? Let's find out!
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